I was sitting in the musty office of Sulu Provincial Police Superintendent Jalasirim Kasim when he received an urgent phone call from his bosses in Manila. I figured it was urgent because he switched into a contrived variant of the English language that could only have evolved in a provincial Philippine police academy.
“Don’t tell anyone”, Colonel Kasim whispered after hanging up the phone, “but a famous Filipino journalist has just been abducted somewhere on the island.”
The Colonel didn’t look that worried. He seemed more interested in testing out the brand new LED Maglite I’d just given him.
His office handles many kidnapping cases a year. “I will not call it a kidnapping yet,” said Kasim. “As of now we should call it an abduction.”
The semantic difference immediately got me confused. Surely the only reason to abduct someone in Sulu was to extract a ransom.
“No, there are many reasons to abduct someone,” Kasim corrected me. If someone doesn’t pay up their debt, you abduct one of their relatives.
“That’s technically not a ransom demand because that person’s family really owes you the money,” Kasim continued, “And some people kidnap for love.”
By far the most common type of abduction is simply called ‘kidnap-to-marry’.
“This kidnap-to-marry we get many reports, but no one files any cases against the suspects,” the Colonel said.
The biggest targets are single, attractive school teachers with college degrees, one Sulu resident told me, because they either have stable government jobs or are easily employable.
An actor I know from Sulu who is now living in Malacca surprised me when he told me his dad kidnapped his mom. “My mom was washing clothes by the river when my dad took her. My dad’s dowry then was a .38 caliber pistol.”
Rival clans would sometimes kidnap each other’s daughters and force them to marry. This, I was told, has the positive effect of ridding the area of clan tensions.
“We’ve tried to advocate against this practice for years,” an exasperated activist from the Mindanao chapter of the women’s rights group GABRIELA said , “but we’ve gotten no where in Sulu.”
A typical kidnap-to-marry police blotter would read like this:
So-and-so, a 5th grade schoolteacher, was on her way home when 3 armed men grabbed her and took her to a nearby town. The groom-to-be’s father immediately sent 50,000 pesos down payment for the dowry.
Why do you need so many men carry out a kidnapping? A friend from Sulu looked at me as if I was stupid. “It’s not that easy to kidnap someone. You have to be successful because if your bride-to-be escapes, you’ll have big trouble in your hands.”
That’s what happened to Arthur Amiril. He tried his luck with the daughter a powerful mayor. Arthur enlisted the help of 5 other men and together they blocked her car, but she managed to escape. Arthur’s family immediately sent a dowry, but it was rejected. The incident sparked an 8-hour gun battle between the families that displaced several hundred villagers.
“The mayor’s family broke the law by rejecting my dowry,” Arthur explained, when I finally caught up with him. His only regret was that his ‘sweetheart’ got away.
He was busy manning a checkpoint he set up on a dangerous stretch of road in Jolo, looking for family members from the mayor’s clan. About a dozen young men with knives and M-16 rifles smoked and sipped sodas, listening to our conversation. This was no official checkpoint.
I asked him if it was true that he pointed his .45 pistol at the mayor’s daughter during the failed abduction.
“No, of course not. You would not point a gun at someone you love, would you?”
The boys with guns cheered and for what passed here as romance.
Copyright © Orlando de Guzman